What Is a Problem ? -)

Bismillaahi,

People are used to think that i am such a free minded person who has no problem at all. Because they see me as an indifferent person, who never take things hard...at least not as hard as them. Or maybe it looks like i am an arrogant person who ignore problems, and even other people's problems.

I wanna say a defense. lol

I do have problems. Well, only dead people who dont. It is just about how  i look at those problems. I dont share my problems. If I share, it might be only a lil part. Yes, that is true. But it looks ridiculous when i think about a problem that i am facing and then sharing it to others. Something which i thought as a big problem, becomes petty problem when i think about it over again. It is not only me who has such problem. Them who have same problem like me can overcome it well. And again, there are even many more people who have much bigger problems than mine. This conclussion came because at past i used to share about my problems also. lol

Just like this, Your problem is You lost your boyfriend because of other girl and you cant move on. You only lost him from your hand. There are many girls out there who lost his boyfriend for death and they move on their lives. What do you think  about it ?

Again, Your problem is you think that your parents dont love you and they love your sibling more. You wanna end up your life cause you think your Parents dont want you. There are many children out there who even dont have parents, never feel the warmt of love in a family, But they are struggling very hard to hold on their lives. What do you think about it ?

So, i think there's no big problem that i should think hard. I believe that any problem i have, there are many people out there who have much bigger problems than mine. So, just let it be flat.

And i am sorry when i use this thinking when dealing with your problems -D